How Soft Centred Are You Questionnaire

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1. Which of the following most closely represents your opinion of St Valentine’s Day?

a. A day when people who are falling in love or dating buy each other cards and presents

b. A romantic day when you always buy your loved one a card and a present.

c. A day when people make a quick buck selling cards, flowers and chocolates at inflated prices

2. Which of the following is your favourite type of music?

a. Anything as long as it is lively and has a beat.

b. Romantic music, be it jazz, classical or pop.

c. Anything so long as it is loud and brassy or stirring.

3. After an argument with your partner, would you buy them a gift to make it up, even though you did not believe it was you that was at fault?

a. maybe.

b. Yes

c. No way.

4. If your work colleague was on a final warning for careless workmanship, would you take the blame for them to prevent them from being sacked after yet another error?

a. It would all depend, perhaps so if they were also one of my close friends and=or they had a wife and family to support.

b. Yes.

c. No.

5. Do you feel sorry for beggars in the street?

a. Yes.

b. Yes, and I often give them money.

c. No.

6. Would you ever give a stray dog or cat a home?

a. I think that I would if the situation ever arose

b. Yes, in fact it is something which I have done.

c. I very much doubt that I would

7. It is a very busy time at work and you are up to your eyes in important paperwork and a demanding schedule. Under those circumstances would you take a couple of days off to spend some much needed quality time with your partner?

a. Yes, but I wouldn’t really be at ease with the thought of all that work on my mind, so under the circumstances it wouldn’t really be quality time.

b. Yes.

c. No, it would be irresponsible to leave my important work undone under the circumstances and Iwould hope that my partner would understand.

8. Do you always tell your partner about any of their habits which you find annoying?

a. Occasionally.

b. Never or very rarely.

c. More than occasionally.

9. You have booked tickets to see your favourite pop star who you have been waiting to see live for years.Then a close friend asks you to help out at a charity event they have organised. You know that they have taken too much on and have no one else to turn to. What would you do?

a. Tell your friend you will help them out if it is absolutely necessary but also explain about your plans to see the pop concert

b. Help them out and cancel your visit to the pop concert, and not even tell your friend you had something else planned

c. Under the circumstances, I could not miss the once-in-alifetime opportunity to see my favourite pop star

10. Your partner seems tired and preoccupied about something. How do you react?

a. Say nothing immediately, but after a day or so, if they appear no better, ask them if they are feeling OK.

b. Tell them you are worried about them and ask if everything is OK.

c. Say nothing in the belief they will soon snap out of it.

11. If you saw someone fall full length in a crowded street, how would you react?

a. Watch to make sure they get up and walk on or that someone nearer than you goes to their assistance.

b. I would instinctively run to their aid.

c. Probably do nothing but hope they are OK.

12. Do you usually feel sorry for the underdog?

a. Sometimes.

b. Usually

c. Not particularly.

13. Have you ever written someone a love-letter?

a. Occasionally.

b. More than occasionally.

c. Rarely or never.

14. What would be your idea of the perfect romantic evening in with someone you were dating?

a. A meal, a sexy movie and some intimate passion for afters.

b. A meal, comfortable sofa and a slushy movie.

c. Supper and breakfast.

15. o you often buy your partner presents?

a. Not often, but I never forget birthdays and Christmas.

b. Yes, I like to surprise my partner with presents whenever I can.

c. Not as often as I should.

16. Do you feel sorry for celebrities who are being vilified in the press?

a. Occasionally.

b. More than occasionally.

c. Never or rarely.

17. How easy is it for you to say no when asked for a favour?

a. I have no problem if I feel the favour being asked is an impossible one or is unreasonable.

b. Difficult.

c. Not difficult.

18. Late at night you turn on to the new channel and hear about a little dog trapped down a well, which a team of firemen are trying to rescue. Which of the following would most apply to yourself the following morning?

a. u would probably go about your usual routine, but might remember the story sometime during the day and mention it to a work colleague or acquaintance to see if they had heard whether or not it had been rescued.

b. The dog would be on your mind so much that you would tune into the news channel as soon as you got up, to try and find out if it had been rescued.

c. Probably do nothing since you would have forgotten all about it.

19. How often do you tell someone some home truths?

a. Occasionally.

b. Never or rarely.

c. More than occasionally.

20. Have you ever found tears streaming down your face when watching a sad movie or something sad on television?

a. On rare occasions.

b. More than on rare occasions.

c. No.

21. Have you ever cried with emotion because you felt so happy for someone other than yourself?

a. Only on very rare occasions.

b. More than on very rare occasions.

c. No.

22. Which of the following qualities do you think is most essential for a successful long-term relationship?

a. A good family life.

b. Caring and sharing.

c. Dynamic and continually stimulating.

23. Which of the following represents your immediate reactionwhen first seeing breaking news footage on television of a heinous act of terrorism?

a. Feelings of anger and outrage at the perpetrators.

b. Great sorrow for the innocent victims and their families.

c. A feeling of there but for the grace of God go I.

24. Have you ever found tears streaming down your face as a result of the emotion of watching a movie, or something on television with a wonderfully happy ending?

a. Occasionally.

b. More than occasionally.

c. Never.

25. Do you believe your heart rules your head or your head rules your heart?

a. Both equally.

b. Heart rules head.

c. Head rules heart.

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